Hey Mouthy I noticed you live in Ontario me too. I live in the Kingston Area how about you?
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who pays for this
by Truth seeker 674 ini am new here was born and raised in the "truth" was disfellowshipped in the eighties (my choice) i was wondering if any one could tell me who pays for this web site and who looks after it?.
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Should I just DA or get DFD?
by Julia Orwell inmy never-a-jw dad told me today that mongrel jws who turn on me were never truly my friends and i'm better off without them, so why worry if i get disfellowshiped?.
i fear being disfellowshiped because my name will be dragged through the mud.
i also think it might be a good idea to da or get dfd because then the link is broken and the fade is over.
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Truth seeker 674
Just ignore them when they request you to appear a judicial committee. They will disfelowship you in absentia thats what happened in my case.
If you have the control over your facial expressions you can go and have some fun with it. The one thing the elders seem to hate is comedy. Given the right kind of creativity you could turn the whole thing into a joke. I have a cousin who stayed in he's a natural born comedian no one takes him seriously. I still have fond memories of his antics even after all these years outside the organization. Beleive me they don't like to be laughed at!
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Are there people who have returned
by His Excellency inconsidering all the consequences of leaving the organization (especially the loss of family), some who have already known ttat have decided to return and continue with the flow just to keep their families and friend.. my question is if anyone here had tried it and how they have been managing living a lie constantly day-after-day?, as i am seriously considering returnning back to the full routine..
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His Excellency
Its your life do what you can live with. I'd wish you luck but I would'nt want to set a place for you with the god of good luck. LOL
Go to utube and listen to Martin Luther Kings- "I have a dream speach" close your eyes and contemplate I am sure you'll make your mind up do what you can live with.
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who pays for this
by Truth seeker 674 ini am new here was born and raised in the "truth" was disfellowshipped in the eighties (my choice) i was wondering if any one could tell me who pays for this web site and who looks after it?.
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Truth seeker 674
Yes Mouthy I did do something right when it came to my daughters. When they were little and my parents who did not attend my wedding BTW in 1989 would come around my house and visit my wife and kids (when I was at work) I instructed my wife to give them very limited contact. My children know who their grandparents are but I did not let them influence them.
When you talk about slaves I can't think of a more applicable comparison.
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who pays for this
by Truth seeker 674 ini am new here was born and raised in the "truth" was disfellowshipped in the eighties (my choice) i was wondering if any one could tell me who pays for this web site and who looks after it?.
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Truth seeker 674
Thanks Mouthy.
I was always a free thinker though private.
I was just reading about 1975 and the experiances that many faced they brought back many memories.
I lost everything my familly had nothing no education but I muddled through I am married now have two daughters with university science degrees. I left pre internet talk about a lonely time. It was just recently upon hearing about my Fathers death that I started reflecting on my life pre and post JW that I happened on this site. I just can't tear myself away from it LOL. I do feel sorry for a lot of people who are still trapped in the organization and don't have the courage to leave.
It's amazing to me that today with the information super highway of the internet this cult still exists but I am reminded by many on here not to underestimate the power of mind control and the threat of leaving freinds and familly.
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who pays for this
by Truth seeker 674 ini am new here was born and raised in the "truth" was disfellowshipped in the eighties (my choice) i was wondering if any one could tell me who pays for this web site and who looks after it?.
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Truth seeker 674
I am new here was born and raised in the "truth" was disfellowshipped in the eighties (my choice) I was wondering if any one could tell me who pays for this web site and who looks after it?
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Are there people who have returned
by His Excellency inconsidering all the consequences of leaving the organization (especially the loss of family), some who have already known ttat have decided to return and continue with the flow just to keep their families and friend.. my question is if anyone here had tried it and how they have been managing living a lie constantly day-after-day?, as i am seriously considering returnning back to the full routine..
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The analogy of slaves seems to fit here I live in Ontario Canada btw the end of the under ground railroad you should think about it from Harriet Tubmans perspective. If you know the history.
If you go back you will not be happy. I don't have any reason to wish you harm or ill will but once you go back it won't be good for brain. Eventually you will hate yourself .
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Are there people who have returned
by His Excellency inconsidering all the consequences of leaving the organization (especially the loss of family), some who have already known ttat have decided to return and continue with the flow just to keep their families and friend.. my question is if anyone here had tried it and how they have been managing living a lie constantly day-after-day?, as i am seriously considering returnning back to the full routine..
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His excellency
I am a Agnostic now. Not religous at all the thought of going back reminds me of a dog eating his own vomit. I would not like to hear about you jumping off a building or being caught up in a bell tower of some building with rifle shooting people. To return to something you know is a lie(going in service, associating with those people, ect.) at least to me is unthinkable. Human beings are just not wired that way.
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Are there people who have returned
by His Excellency inconsidering all the consequences of leaving the organization (especially the loss of family), some who have already known ttat have decided to return and continue with the flow just to keep their families and friend.. my question is if anyone here had tried it and how they have been managing living a lie constantly day-after-day?, as i am seriously considering returnning back to the full routine..
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Truth seeker 674
His excellency
I am a Agnostic now. Not religous at all the thought of going back reminds me of a dog eating his own vomit. I would not like to hear about you jumping off a building or being caught up in a bell tower of some building with rifle shooting people. To return to something you know is a lie(going in service, associating with those people, ect.) at least to me is unthinkable. Human beings are just not wired that way.
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Are there people who have returned
by His Excellency inconsidering all the consequences of leaving the organization (especially the loss of family), some who have already known ttat have decided to return and continue with the flow just to keep their families and friend.. my question is if anyone here had tried it and how they have been managing living a lie constantly day-after-day?, as i am seriously considering returnning back to the full routine..
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I was born and raised in the"truth" left in the mid eighties lost everything. I could not consider going back for any reason. Do yourself a favour and don't go back most people cannot live a perpetual lie and maintain their sanity. The ones who can are in my oppinion deranged and I know some of them I think their scary people.